Ni de Aquí, Ni de Allá – Embracing Our Latinidad on National Holidays

When asked, “What are you doing for [x] holiday?” many of us often find ourselves at a loss since we simply don’t celebrate certain holidays, despite living in the United States for many years.

Growing up, many of our families didn’t make a big deal out of the 4th of July. Sure, we barbecued and enjoyed fireworks, but that was mostly because everyone else was doing it (and Latinos, among others, love any excuse to party). The significance of the 4th of July as a celebration of American independence often didn’t resonate until we were older. For many, it was just another day off to spend with family.

Learning about the 4th of July didn’t change much for many Latinas. Despite being raised primarily in the United States, our Latina identity has always come first, and that isn’t changing anytime soon.

We’ve always been honest about feeling “ni de aquí, ni de allá” (neither from here, nor from there). Sometimes we’re seen as too Americanized for some Latinos and too Latina for others. Over time, we’ve come to see our identity as a source of power in our differences.

As the years go on, we realize that holidays vary from person to person. What is pivotal for one might not be a moment to commemorate for another, and that’s okay. One thing we’re exceptionally grateful for is how the younger generation embraces cultural and identity differences, seeing them as sources of power rather than blocks that sow division.

The feeling of otherness on these national holidays often makes us feel extra Latina. Where we once felt pressured to assimilate into American culture, we’re now learning to forge our own paths, especially on these big holidays.

For those struggling with this sense of otherness, we encourage you to do the same. Focus less on the need to belong, and instead embrace making the most of these days in ways that are meaningful to you.

Create your own traditions, connect the day to your own culture’s relationship with the U.S., and put in the work to redefine what it means to be “American” in a time where even those who have been here for generations are rethinking their pride.

So, let’s spend the day by the pool with a mojito – because it’s still a day off, right?

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Please note: This article has been revised and edited, based on an original editorial by the author originally published on Luz Media.